How to Get Lucky

How to Get Lucky

Why some people are more fortunate than the others.

October 29, 2020

Have you ever got rejected for a position you’ve interviewed for? Or maybe you’ve received the wrong orders when ordering food? When these things happen in our life, sometimes we blame it on luck.

But do you know that you can increase your chance of being lucky? Or to put it in another perspective, do you know that luck is something that we can partly control?

Let’s take a look at how we can seize any opportunity that we find and bring fortune to our side.

Be at the right place at the right time

In a study about luck written by Richard Wiseman in 2003 , there is an anecdote about a man named Barnett Helzberg:

Barnett Helzberg Jr. is a lucky man. One day he was walking past the Plaza Hotel in New York when he heard a woman call out, “Mr. Buffett,” to the man next to him. Helzberg wondered whether the man might be Warren Buffett — one of the most successful investors in America. Helzberg was thinking of selling his company and realised that his business might be the type of company that would interest Buffett.

Helzberg seized the opportunity, walked over to the stranger, and introduced himself. The man did indeed turn out to be Warren Buffett. The chance meeting proved highly fortuitous because Buffett agreed to buy Helzberg’s chain of stores about a year later. And all because Helzberg happened to be walking by as a woman called out Buffett’s name on a street corner in New York.

What happened with Helzberg might seem like pure luck and the story may not provide the whole context of the situation: Why was Helzberg there? What was he doing?

If there is one thing that we can learn from this chain of events it’s this: show up everyday. Make a move — don’t just sit still and be idle. That way, you are increasing your chance of being at the right place at the right time.

Just enough preparation

The Roman philosopher Seneca once said, luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.

For example, to be able to get a job, you have to be prepared and have a resume. Only after you have it, you can apply for a job. Your resume (or your work exeprience) is the preparation and the job vacancies are the opportunities.

In the story of Barnett Helzberg Jr., his previous act of building the business for years were essential to the chance that came upon him that day. The opportunity was answered with the right amount of preparation.

You might lose opportunities and chances because you lack preparation. The more you prepare, the more you can utilise the opportunity that come before you.

Take action

The last thing that is needed to maximize your chance of being lucky is to take action. Being well prepared at the right place and the right time provide the foundation — but if you don’t take action, nothing will happen.

In our previous example of finding a job, once you are well-prepared with a resume, you need to take action — which is to apply for the job. And only after you do, luck will play its role: by giving you a chance of getting a call back from the company.

Helzberg Jr. took a leap of faith. He walked to a stranger which turned out to be Warren Buffett. He took action.

When opportunity come to you, don’t second guess yourself. Trust your gut and go for it.

Be open and positive

A positive mind is the biggest amplifier for a person to be lucky. In Wiseman’s study about luck, personality tests revealed that unlucky people are generally much more tense and anxious than lucky people, and research has shown that anxiety disrupts people’s ability to notice the unexpected.

When the unexpected comes, unlucky people tend to think about the negative outcomes, while lucky people think about the limitless possibilities of the unexpected.

The glass will always be either half full or half empty. But why stress about it? You can always fill the glass over and over again.

Lucky people, as it turned out to be, may not be as fortunate as they seem. They are still lucky indeed, but the preparation and action they’ve done serve as variables that contribute to their luck.

Have a positive and open mindset, show up everyday, be prepared for what you are aiming for, and take a leap when you have to. Only then, fortune will be on your side.

Lucky people generate their own good fortune via four basic principles. They are skilled at creating and noticing chance opportunities, make lucky decisions by listening to their intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies via positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.

This article was inspired by Richard Wiseman’s The Luck Factor which I happen to stumble upon while doing a research for another article.

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